When we love someone, sometimes we only see the attributes about them that we want to see. It may seem charismatic and fun, and as a great person to meet and spend time with him. But how do you know if this is really the type of person you want to talk to seriously? Does that show potential as a man you would like to have a relationship with? It can be difficult to know if a man is willing to compromise, or even if you want him to do so. A boy can be great at the start of the courtship, but he ends up being a pretty awful boyfriend. How do you know if it’s worth the time? Check out these signs that it’s not boyfriend material.
He spends a lot of time alone.
If you spend a lot of time alone, it is an indication that you are self-confident and independent. But it could also mean that he could be stuck in his ways and used to having things exactly as he prefers. This may not leave much room for him to be open-minded to consider his preferences or desires.
You have to ask him to help you out.
They can say chivalry is dead, but that doesn’t have to be the case with your relationship. If a guy doesn’t offer to help you with a big bag of groceries or open the door for you in any situation, it’s not worth your time.
He doesn’t think about your world.
A guy who is really interested in you will think he just won the big figurative prize just to be with you. He will not take your presence for granted and he will realize how lucky he is to have found you. If he only considers you as one of his options, it’s a guaranteed sign that he would be a terrible boyfriend.