He is really going with the flow.
It’s nice to be with a guy who has his feet on the ground and relaxes with things. But if he acts like he doesn’t care if you leave or stay, whether you spend time with him or not, or enjoy your time with him or if you hate it, it might be too calm for a relationship.
He’s not on his A-game.
If you are a woman with your business together, you need someone who is as well prepared as you or more. This does not mean that you must be disgustingly rich or have solved everything. But if you are with a boy who is not trying to be the best and who has a lazy, underperforming lifestyle, he may not have what it takes to match your hustle and bustle and achieve the goal of life.